Spiritual marriage is meant to be happy. Energy meridians of the body

Igor Nikolaev (01/17/1960, Boar) and Yulia Proskuryakova (08/11/1982, Dog). Examples of spiritual marriage are also couples Dmitry Kharatyan and Marina Maiko, John Lennon and Yoko Ono, Katya and Alexander Strizhenov, Leonid Agutin and Angelica Varum.

SPIRITUAL COMMANDMENTS.

So: only that union in which the spouses’ types of thinking are mutually complementary can be called a spiritual marriage. Thus, the will is complemented by mysticism, and logic is complemented by realism. Rat - Rooster, Rat - Bull, Rat - Snake, Monkey - Rooster, Monkey - Bull, Dragon - Rooster, Dragon - Bull, Dragon - Snake. In this half, one marriage is missing; it has gone under the vector (Monkey - Snake). The other half has more holes. Horse - Cat, Horse - Goat, Tiger - Cat, Tiger - Boar, Dog - Cat, Dog - Boar, Dog - Goat. In this half there are two marriages missing (Horse - Boar and Tiger - Goat), it is clear that these are vector exceptions. Any other marriage, no matter how many spiritual insights, UFO flights, psychic breakthroughs and poltergeists it contains, cannot be called a spiritual marriage.

The commandments are: Strive to find an eternal friend, forget about the rest, love complexity, stop loving simplicity, communicate limitlessly, intrigue each other, have two separate careers, shake them up, but do not mix them, be liberated, think less about public institutions, communicate with God directly , build your life in a spiral and be above your circumstances. Now a little more detail.

a) The ideal situation for entering into a spiritual marriage is a feeling of unbearable loneliness. Only the one who carries within himself the fear of the end of his youth, the fear of the loss of friends and loved ones, the fear that children will grow up and run away, the fear of darkness and the abyss into which one cannot step without at least holding hands with someone, only he was finally ripe for spiritual marriage.

b) Protecting themselves from loneliness and anticipating the betrayal of friends, colleagues and other citizens, confessors must strike a preemptive blow and be the first to turn away from the world of people. You can say hello, talk, tell jokes, but at the same time realize that people are just a piece of decoration, and there are only two real characters in the play of life - spiritually interacting spouses. That’s why it’s so easy to communicate with other people, because they are just spectators and listeners, or maybe readers, but they cannot influence the real action, only two people decide everything.

c) Be wise, deep, do not look for simple paths and easy truths. Complicate where it is simple, muddy where it is transparent, pile up where it was spacious. This is your destiny. You are called to difficult routes, simple ways leave it to other people, your path is not trivial. Hence the very style of your communication, go from the opposite, you want to say “Yes!”, say “No!”, look for the black in white, look for the black in the villain, look for where he is kind in the hero, look for where he is mean in the hero. This is what Stanislavsky taught us.

d) Communicate limitlessly. Do not deny yourself the pleasure of turning any topic into a subject of great wisdom and philosophical research. Learn to listen to an opinion that is unpleasant and incomprehensible to you, find a symmetrical answer to it, and engage in long-term contact of tangential blows. But head-on collisions must be avoided. Spiritual marriage is not in a hurry, does not run anywhere, and therefore quick decisions, truths born in heated debates, are not needed here. Take your time, don’t butt heads, it’s not the truth that is needed in a spiritual marriage, but only the search for it, a joint path to this truth. And hence the favorite style of communication - one talks about one thing, the other about another. Questions remain unanswered, effects change with causes, up becomes down, right becomes left, and so on. The main thing is that this style does not anger your interlocutors, but amuses them.

e) Hence the main criterion for the vitality of a spiritual union - the spouses must be extremely interesting to each other. They are like strange little animals, like aliens. Unprecedented, incomprehensible, fascinating. Hence the conclusion - disguise yourself, do not help reveal you to the end, keep secrets, muddy the waters, cover your tracks. A transparent and clear person in a spiritual marriage will not last long. The ideal option for mutual alienation is great mastery in exactly what the spouse is most mediocre at. Mastery of something that is beyond your partner’s understanding is the path to maximum delight. And the state of creative enthusiasm in a spiritual marriage is a good thing, a necessary thing.

f) The unique skills of the spouses inevitably give rise to a system of two careers. But the trick is that each of the two careers is accomplished not on its own, but for the sake of an eternal friend. This is the uniqueness of a spiritual career; it is selfless, because its achievement is the delight and satisfaction of that only person for whose sake it is worth living and creating. So from one tandem four are born. It’s not so much two people interacting with each other, and not even so much two careers, as each spouse with someone else’s career. They kind of pull each other, in modern terms, they become producers for each other. This option would be ideal.

g) The fear of spiritual marriage as a kind of mental hospital, an asylum for the insane, a forge of all types of deviations and pathologies is completely unjustified. This is a marriage of the highest spiritual takeoff, an experiment of pure and selfless penetration beyond the horizon line, beyond the line separating the temporary world from the eternal world. Well, if someone has not yet matured to understand the depths of the universe, then this is his problem. No one has yet proven that humanity must stop in its development, therefore, we must move forward, and there is only him ahead, a selfless, quiet and deep spiritual union, no matter how abnormal it may seem now, when viewed from the world of greed, aggression and cult individual achievements.

h) Those who have already decided for themselves that a spiritual marriage is a meeting of angels with wings, that everyone in it walks in soft slippers, and speaks only in a whisper, the author is forced to disappoint. The participants in the spiritual union are too wise and too deep to skim the surface of sanctimonious stereotypes and to abide by the rules of morality imposed on the plebeians. Confessors can do everything that their personal conscience allows them, not borrowed from the copybooks of lawyers and dogmatists, but suffered in the endless struggles of spirit and flesh. By the way, there has always been enough flesh in a spiritual marriage; this is not some kind of ethereal romantic union. This is the paradox of compensation. While the flesh is strong, it strives for romantic heights, but the almost disembodied spirit clings to the flesh with both hands.

i) Spiritual marriage, in its ideal version, should perform a miracle - reveal the line of truly useful interaction between the sexes. Flying through the romance of the superficial layer of external differences, making its way through the palisade of the patriarchal economic expediency of the division of labor, and finally slipping through the period of the war of the sexes, the spiritual sign demonstrates the main difference between the sexes. A man is a brilliant creator, a woman is an equally brilliant perceiver. Male creativity is always too independent, too unfounded, too arbitrary. A woman follows a longer, more ornate path, compares and assimilates other people’s things better and more objectively. In this sense, they are an ideal couple.

j) Marriage is strong in its achievements. In a spiritual marriage, these achievements lie in the unique path of coexistence of two careers. No one will ever come up with such perfect co-authorship as in spiritual marriage. If there is at least something in the world that exists at the intersection of two sciences, two arts, two sides of existence, then the highest success should be achieved there by a man and a woman intertwined either with their bodies, or their minds, or their souls. The dark and dense soul is male, the light and loose soul is female.

k) By strengthening their individualities in spiritual marriage, spouses receive complete emancipation in relation to society. Thus, this marriage is inherently antisocial. A romantic marriage must give its beauty to society, a patriarchal marriage must give its children to society, an equal marriage must give its energy and its aggression to society. Spiritual marriage owes nothing to society - it is the basis of a future anarchist-individualist society. Well, until the bright future has arrived, do not hesitate to pay less attention to politicians, officials, governments, presidents, states of all types, all kinds of parties, scientific meetings, societies, communities, academies, and so on and so forth...

m) Remember the fairy tale about the “white bull”. This is what spiritual marriage is about. There is movement in marriage, but this movement goes in a spiral, with endless turns in the same circles. Such a movement is in harmony with the essence of marriage, in which nothing is ever agreed upon to the end, where everything is confused, it is not clear where not a single dot is placed, and commas are almost invisible. Therefore, forward - to what is behind or back - to what is in front. Therefore, never give up, there are no reasons that prohibit, in case of inconsistency, going to one more circle, then another, another and another... So: the romantic is always unchanged, the equal is always changing, the patriarchal is in gradual deterioration, but the spiritual , thanks to its spiral rise should always improve. This is exactly what the spiral is for. Each topic of marriage should be revised, improved and strengthened from time to time. Just take your time, don’t rush anywhere.

m) Spiritual marriage is the only one of the balanced ones (vector marriage does not count), in which a person “sails away” from his sign. Anyone who possessed a strong-willed type of thinking gradually shifts towards a mystical worldview. The mystic, thanks to whom this advancement took place, in turn moves forward into the element of will. The interaction between the logical and realistic elements is similar. Thus, a person, through unstoppable work and powerful marital interaction, not only changes his destiny, but also transforms what was given to him from birth - his sign.

o) At some stage, spiritual marriage apparently requires constant communication. However, if the “capture” of souls has occurred, then does it really matter whether the spouses are nearby or not? In this, like many other, senses, spiritual marriage is the arithmetic mean of romantic and equal unions. The romantic demanded constant separation, the equal demanded constant contact, therefore, the spiritual demanded something in between. For example, constant contact in conditions of separation, or contactless stay nearby. Most likely, we are talking about a continuous alternation of separations and meetings, approaches and distances. A spiritual marriage should sway.

o) Spiritual marriage is called spiritual because, despite its antisocial and antisocial nature, it is as close as possible to the religious understanding of marriage. There is no chatter about eternal love, no ascetic service, no battle for the cause of the Lord. But there is a real presence of divine forces, which, in fact, are released at the moment the signs descend from their places. The sign is like a cork closing a bottle. The less the cork is ground in, the faster the gin (spirit) living in the bottle begins to evaporate. In a vector marriage, the bottle opens like champagne, with a crash and foam. In a spiritual marriage, the plug is slowly removed.

p) Spiritual marriage experiences antagonism to other marriages less than others. From his height he looks favorably on all other marriages. For him, these are all games, but quite funny ones. It’s fun to play at romance, it’s fun to play at patriarchal relationships, but you can, however, arrange a fight and social competition in the manner of an equal union. Well, when you get tired of all this, you can return to spiritual union. In this sense, spiritual marriage is the only synthetic one.

To summarize: spiritual marriage, although the most difficult to implement, is not strict in its implementation. Therefore, the very concept of commandments is not entirely appropriate here. It's more about wishes.

Marriage involves unity on the physical, mental and spiritual levels. An ideal marriage is a communication of two souls. If partners are not spiritually inclined, they cannot be absolutely happy.

What is spiritual union

Spiritual marriage comes from the original spiritual law. This is a union between people who are attracted to each other by divine magnetism. Sometimes in such a marriage, spouses live without engaging in sexual activity. It is known in many cultures as the connection between a man and a woman based on spiritual and emotional intimacy and is built on the desire to achieve higher fulfillment in the family. The relationship between husband and wife is about each partner helping the other to develop love and spirituality.

Physical marriage practiced in modern world, created for:

• reproduction and assistance in the study of love;
• fidelity;
• talents;
• communication.

Spouses learn lessons from their marital partnership and learn to unite their feelings and minds.

Spiritual connection presupposes harmony of spirit and body. Two people linking their lives to help each other in divine awareness creates a marriage on the right basis: unconditional friendship and equality. If each demands fulfillment from the other, and the demand is not fulfilled, the spouses become enemies. A long and happy partnership in most cases is impossible without spirituality, but for such a union you need to mature.

Target family life is to expand your consciousness through the cultivation of purifying divine love and friendship that is not driven by sexual or selfish motivation. Friendship is very important in a marriage relationship. Unions built only on sex are destroyed very quickly. If sex becomes the most important part of a marriage, the couple loses interest and the initial glow of satisfaction fades. Those who do not differentiate between true love and sensual attraction are disappointed again and again.

Celibacy

Celibacy is a state of voluntary refusal to marry, mainly for religious reasons. In its narrow sense, the term applies to those for whom celibacy is the result of a sacred vow, act of renunciation, or religious conviction. In a broader sense, it refers only to abstinence from sexual activity.

Celibation has existed in one form or another throughout history in the world's major religions, and views on it have changed.

Protestantism saw a reversal of this trend in the West, and Eastern Orthodox Church never accepted it. Islam has also always had a bad attitude towards celibacy.

Classical Hindu culture encouraged asceticism and celibacy in the later stages of life, after one had fulfilled one's social obligations.

Celibacy in the concept of the Catholic clergy presupposes the observance of chastity. Priests are prohibited from marrying or having relationships. Violation of these laws is tantamount to sacrilege.

Positive and negative sides of an emotional union

Benefits of spiritual marriage:

• long-term relationship. Both spouses accept each other’s shortcomings and strengths, do not compete and value family;
• comfortable cohabitation. Home comfort and understanding create a favorable atmosphere. In such a union, a man and a woman receive positive energy;
• loyalty. Devotion and spiritual closeness contribute to the fact that neither spouse even thinks about betrayal.

Flaws:

• misunderstanding due to everyday problems. Sometimes one of the spouses takes on all the responsibilities and duties, which causes conflicts;
• one of the partners ceases to like life in an emotional union, he prefers to distance himself.

Physical attraction, external beauty of a partner, financial reasons for marriage lead to the wrong path. The sin is to throw in one's lot with the wrong person, based on social custom or physical instinct. People should marry only when they feel oneness of soul. If they are united by sacred vows, they must remain together, be devoted to each other.

The right union fosters true love top level. Husband and wife should be mutually loyal and try to become happy in all respects. A spiritual wife should not leave a spiritless husband, and a husband should not leave a spiritless wife; they should try to influence each other.

Before marriage, people must learn to control their emotions. Loyalty and understanding between husband and wife gradually frees the mind from the limitations of sexual desire and raises it to the level of divine love. It sublimates the desire for sex into beautiful human relationships. Without true love the heart will remain empty.

Why does cheating happen?

Cheating, both physical and spiritual, occurs when trust disappears between two people and a moral conflict arises, romantic relationship become dull, interest in the partner disappears.

Emotional betrayal is one of the most painful experiences, emotional trauma. Infidelity leaves deep emotional scars, activating the same areas of the brain as physical pain.

Betrayal often comes unexpectedly and leaves a person powerless. First people experience:

• negation;
• mistrust.

During this time, there is a rapid emotional transition from intense anger and rage to deep despair and sadness. The person tries to understand what happened, but at the same time experiences a feeling of loss.

Physical infidelity involves sexual, physical contact with another partner. Men and women perceive this type of betrayal differently. For a woman, emotional and spiritual fidelity is more important as an integral part of relationships and marriage. For a man, it is necessary to be sure that he is raising his children, so the physical fidelity of his wife from a male point of view is most important.

Spiritual betrayal consists of emotional betrayal, when one of the partners strives with all his soul and thoughts for another person, while physically remaining faithful to his wife or husband

The reasons for infidelity can be:

• lack of spiritual support and understanding in the family and the need to find this energy on the side;
• lack of sex or dissatisfaction;
• differences in character.

Recovering from betrayal takes a long time. Often a person who has experienced the pain of betrayal withdraws from communication and isolates himself in order to protect himself from a possible repetition of the situation.

In order not to suffer from betrayal, be sure to find a soul mate, next to whom you will develop and grow spiritually.

Grigory Kvasha: Marriage horoscope

So: only that union in which the spouses’ types of thinking are mutually complementary can be called a spiritual marriage. For example, will is complemented by mysticism, and logic is complemented by realism. Rat - Rooster, Rat - Bull, Rat - Snake, Monkey - Rooster, Monkey - Bull, Dragon - Rooster, Dragon - Bull, Dragon - Snake. In this half, one marriage is missing; it has gone under the vector (Monkey - Snake). In the other half, Horse - Cat, Horse - Goat, Tiger - Cat, Tiger - Boar, Dog - Cat, Dog - Boar, Dog - Goat. There are more gaps in this half, two marriages are missing (Horse - Boar and Tiger - Goat), it is clear that these are vector exceptions. Any other marriage, no matter how many spiritual insights, UFO flights, psychic breakthroughs and poltergeists it contains, cannot be called a spiritual marriage.

Spiritual marriage should be the most complex, the most difficult to establish. It is not surprising that the signs of the spouses are as far apart as possible. They have no equality in anything - neither in the type of thinking, nor in the image (two parts of the sign in the ideological structure). That is, of the four possible options for marriage, the spiritual one turned out to be the one in which the road to each other is as far as possible, as confusing and unobvious as possible.

If spouses get into a spiritual marriage young, then they will have to go through many large and small crises and disagreements, and maybe even through divorce. However, if you succeed in crises, overcoming your own “I”, every time you reach out to new level communication, as if moving in a spiral and rising higher and higher, then gradually the spiritual marriage will strengthen, deepen and, ultimately, become the best of all possible marriages. In such a marriage there will no longer be separate personalities or separate horoscopes; even souls will merge into one. That's how high the stakes are in a spiritual marriage.

Love, which psychologists have until now considered a destructive factor for the strength of marriage (vector or romantic union), will become inevitably necessary in a spiritual marriage. However, in this love there will be much less passion, less struggle of the sexes, less blindness and anger.

Grigory Kvasha.
Structural horoscope: Marriage purposes.

The stakes in spiritual marriage are high.

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Spiritual marriage

Husband	Wife
Rat, Monkey, Dragon	Bull, Snake, Rooster
Bull, Snake, Rooster	Rat, Monkey, Dragon
Tiger, Horse, Dog	Cat, Goat, Boar
Cat, Goat, Boar	Tiger, Horse, Dog

Only that union in which the spouses’ thinking types are mutually complementary can be called a spiritual marriage. So will is complemented by mysticism, and logic is complemented by realism

The commandments are: Strive to find an eternal friend, forget about the rest, love complexity, stop loving simplicity, communicate limitlessly, intrigue each other, have two separate careers, shake them up, but do not mix them, be liberated, think less about public institutions, communicate with God directly , build your life in a spiral and be above your circumstances. Now a little more detail.

A) The ideal situation for entering into a spiritual marriage is a feeling of unbearable loneliness. Only the one who carries within himself the fear of the end of his youth, the fear of the loss of friends and loved ones, the fear that children will grow up and run away, the fear of darkness and the abyss into which one cannot step without at least holding hands with someone, only he was finally ripe for spiritual marriage.

B) Protecting themselves from loneliness and anticipating the betrayal of friends, colleagues and other citizens, confessors must strike a preemptive blow and be the first to turn away from the world of people. You can say hello, talk, tell jokes, but at the same time realize that people are just a piece of decoration, and there are only two real characters in the play of life - spiritually interacting spouses. That’s why it’s so easy to communicate with other people, because they are just spectators and listeners, or maybe readers, but they cannot influence the real action, only two people decide everything.

C) Be wise, deep, do not look for simple paths and easy truths. Complicate where it is simple, muddy where it is transparent, pile up where it was spacious. This is your destiny. You are called to difficult routes, leave simple paths to other people, your path is not banal. Hence the very style of your communication, go from the opposite, you want to say “Yes!”, say “No!”, look for the black in white, look for the black in the villain, look for where he is kind in the hero, look for where he is mean in the hero. This is what Stanislavsky taught us.

D) Communicate limitlessly. Do not deny yourself the pleasure of turning any topic into a subject of great wisdom and philosophical research. Learn to listen to an opinion that is unpleasant and incomprehensible to you, find a symmetrical answer to it, and engage in long-term contact of tangential blows. But head-on collisions must be avoided. Spiritual marriage is not in a hurry, does not run anywhere, and therefore quick decisions, truths born in heated debates, are not needed here. Take your time, don’t butt heads, it’s not the truth that is needed in a spiritual marriage, but only the search for it, a joint path to this truth. And hence the favorite style of communication - one talks about one thing, the other about another. Questions remain unanswered, effects change with causes, up becomes down, right becomes left, and so on. The main thing is that this style does not anger your interlocutors, but amuses them.

D) Hence the main criterion for the vitality of a spiritual union - the spouses must be extremely interesting to each other. They are like strange little animals, like aliens. Unprecedented, incomprehensible, fascinating. Hence the conclusion - disguise yourself, do not help reveal you to the end, keep secrets, muddy the waters, cover your tracks. A transparent and clear person in a spiritual marriage will not last long. The ideal option for mutual alienation is great mastery in exactly what the spouse is most mediocre at. Mastery of something that is beyond your partner’s understanding is the path to maximum delight. And the state of creative enthusiasm in a spiritual marriage is a good thing, a necessary thing.

E) The unique skills of the spouses inevitably give rise to a system of two careers. But the trick is that each of the two careers is accomplished not on its own, but for the sake of an eternal friend. This is the uniqueness of a spiritual career; it is selfless, because its achievement is the delight and satisfaction of that only person for whose sake it is worth living and creating. So from one tandem four are born. It’s not so much two people interacting with each other, and not even so much two careers, as each spouse with someone else’s career. They kind of pull each other, in modern terms, they become producers for each other. This option would be ideal.

G) Fear of spiritual marriage as a kind of mental hospital, an asylum for the insane, a forge of all types of deviations and pathologies is completely unjustified. This is a marriage of the highest spiritual takeoff, an experiment of pure and selfless penetration beyond the horizon line, beyond the line separating the temporary world from the eternal world. Well, if someone has not yet matured to understand the depths of the universe, then this is his problem. No one has yet proven that humanity must stop in its development, therefore, we must move forward, and there is only him ahead, a selfless, quiet and deep spiritual union, no matter how abnormal it may seem now, when viewed from the world of greed, aggression and cult individual achievements.

H) Those who have already decided for themselves that a spiritual marriage is a meeting of angels with wings, that everyone in it walks in soft slippers, and speaks only in a whisper, the author is forced to disappoint. The participants in the spiritual union are too wise and too deep to skim the surface of sanctimonious stereotypes and to abide by the rules of morality imposed on the plebeians. Confessors can do everything that their personal conscience allows them, not borrowed from the copybooks of lawyers and dogmatists, but suffered in the endless struggles of spirit and flesh. By the way, there has always been enough flesh in a spiritual marriage; this is not some kind of ethereal romantic union. This is the paradox of compensation. While the flesh is strong, it strives for romantic heights, but the almost disembodied spirit clings to the flesh with both hands.

I) Spiritual marriage, in its ideal version, should perform a miracle - reveal the line of truly useful interaction between the sexes. Flying through the romance of the superficial layer of external differences, making its way through the palisade of the patriarchal economic expediency of the division of labor, and finally slipping through the period of the war of the sexes, the spiritual sign demonstrates the main difference between the sexes. A man is a brilliant creator, a woman is an equally brilliant perceiver. Male creativity is always too independent, too unfounded, too arbitrary. A woman follows a longer, more ornate path, compares and assimilates other people’s things better and more objectively. In this sense, they are an ideal couple.

K) Marriage is strong in its achievements. In a spiritual marriage, these achievements lie in the unique path of coexistence of two careers. No one will ever come up with such perfect co-authorship as in spiritual marriage. If there is at least something in the world that exists at the intersection of two sciences, two arts, two sides of existence, then the highest success should be achieved there by a man and a woman intertwined either with their bodies, or their minds, or their souls. The dark and dense soul is male, the light and loose soul is female.

K) By strengthening their individualities in spiritual marriage, spouses receive complete emancipation in relation to society. Thus, this marriage is inherently antisocial. A romantic marriage must give its beauty to society, a patriarchal marriage must give its children to society, an equal marriage must give its energy and its aggression to society. Spiritual marriage owes nothing to society - it is the basis of a future anarchist-individualist society. Well, until the bright future has arrived, do not hesitate to pay less attention to politicians, officials, governments, presidents, states of all types, all kinds of parties, scientific meetings, societies, communities, academies, and so on and so forth...

M) Remember the fairy tale about the “white bull”. This is what spiritual marriage is about. There is movement in marriage, but this movement goes in a spiral, with endless turns in the same circles. Such a movement is in harmony with the essence of marriage, in which nothing is ever agreed upon to the end, where everything is confused, it is not clear where not a single dot is placed, and commas are almost invisible. Therefore, forward - to what is behind or back - to what is in front. Therefore, never give up, there are no reasons that prohibit, in case of inconsistency, going to one more circle, then another, another and another... So: the romantic is always unchanged, the equal is always changing, the patriarchal is in gradual deterioration, but the spiritual , thanks to its spiral rise should always improve. This is exactly what the spiral is for. Each topic of marriage should be revised, improved and strengthened from time to time. Just take your time, don’t rush anywhere.

H) Spiritual marriage is the only equilibrium marriage (vector marriage does not count) in which a person “sails away” from his sign. Anyone who possessed a strong-willed type of thinking gradually shifts towards a mystical worldview. The mystic, thanks to whom this advancement took place, in turn moves forward into the element of will. The interaction between the logical and realistic elements is similar. Thus, a person, through unstoppable work and powerful marital interaction, not only changes his destiny, but also transforms what was given to him from birth - his sign.

A) At some stage, spiritual marriage apparently requires constant communication. However, if the “capture” of souls has occurred, then does it really matter whether the spouses are nearby or not? In this, like many other, senses, spiritual marriage is the arithmetic mean of romantic and equal unions. The romantic demanded constant separation, the equal demanded constant contact, therefore, the spiritual demanded something in between. For example, constant contact in conditions of separation, or contactless stay nearby. Most likely, we are talking about a continuous alternation of separations and meetings, approaches and distances. A spiritual marriage should sway.
o) Spiritual marriage is called spiritual because, despite its antisocial and antisocial nature, it is as close as possible to the religious understanding of marriage. There is no chatter about eternal love, no ascetic service, no battle for the cause of the Lord. But there is a real presence of divine forces, which, in fact, are released at the moment the signs descend from their places. The sign is like a cork closing a bottle. The less the cork is ground in, the faster the gin (spirit) living in the bottle begins to evaporate. In a vector marriage, the bottle opens like champagne, with a crash and foam. In a spiritual marriage, the plug is slowly removed.

R) Spiritual marriage is less likely than others to experience antagonism to other marriages. From his height he looks favorably on all other marriages. For him, these are all games, but quite funny ones. It’s fun to play at romance, it’s fun to play at patriarchal relationships, but you can, however, arrange a fight and social competition in the manner of an equal union. Well, when you get tired of all this, you can return to a spiritual union. In this sense, spiritual marriage is the only synthetic one.

To summarize: spiritual marriage, although the most difficult to implement, is not strict in its implementation. Therefore, the very concept of commandments is not entirely appropriate here. It's more about wishes.
This marriage is a hymn to the human spirit, a hymn to the human mind. The path of spouses to each other in such a union is the most difficult. It's hard for them to find mutual language. It is also difficult for them to find unity in the sphere of reason - the types of thinking are different. And yet, the highest reward awaits the one who decides on such a marriage and is able to do all the spiritual work in search of community. None of the previous types of marriage is able to bring the high harmony that such a union gives. Only spouses who are maximally absorbed in each other will be able to solve the most difficult problems of a spiritual union.
In a sense, this marriage, in terms of the degree of possible influence, approaches a vector one, but there is no negative consequences vector relationships associated with the destruction of personality. On the contrary, here comes the harmony of the individual, the harmony of her natural and romantic aspirations. Any person, even those farthest from creative aspirations, becomes a creator and creator in such a union.

Such a marriage can begin, like any other, with love, but unlike other marriages, love here is not the initial phase, but must always be preserved. To love we must add a common cause, and both husband and wife must respect each other’s point of view.
Nothing in this union can remain personal property - everything must become common, verified. Only such work on yourself will help you understand and accept your life partner. But any negligence or manifestation of laziness of the soul on the path of spiritual quest can turn into tragedy and rupture. Accept that in a spiritual marriage, disagreements only lead to the triumph of the spirit, to the triumph of the family.

Futurology of marriage

To understand the meaning of spiritual marriage, it is necessary to appreciate the overall evolutionary process the institution of marriage, to understand where this seemingly very simple matter of reuniting a man and a woman into a single whole comes from and where it is moving.

Any nation traces its history back to patriarchal times. Of course, everything was different for everyone. However, without the risk of making a mistake, we can say that among all nations the basic principles of family organization are similar. The main thing was the division of labor into male and female. This is very beneficial in difficult times: one is completely responsible for the kitchen, raising children, clothing, the other is responsible for getting money or food, protects the family (community, state) from enemies, does hard but necessary work...

Is it worth explaining that the flip side of patriarchal marriage and patriarchal existence was the enslavement of women, their exclusion from most social processes.

Subsequently, with an increase in overall life expectancy, with an increase in the education and cultural level of the population as a whole, the position of women slowly but surely began to change. The political and economic justification for both division of labor and large families, two cornerstones of patriarchal marriage, has disappeared.

The moment when women entered the service en masse was revolutionary. The illusion that has now arisen that women will again be able to be driven into domestic reservations is deeply erroneous and naive. It is impossible to return to patriarchal marriage. The stereotype of patriarchal marriage is certainly falling apart and can only be preserved as a museum piece.

The destruction of the foundations of patriarchal marriage should be accompanied by the birth of the stereotype of equal marriage, but equal marriage itself is objectively weaker than patriarchal marriage, and it is impossible to establish it in one day throughout the country. As a result, we have what we have, namely a severe crisis in marriage. In this case, it is pointless to look for a way to return to the past; the point of return has been passed, we must move on. However, there is still a choice: either to get stuck, in the Western style, in the jungle of equal marriage, or, with your eyes closed, to break forward into the future, to the stereotypes of spiritual marriage, a very complex, ambiguous marriage, but much more durable than equal marriage.

You can talk as much as you like about Russia’s entry into the Western world, the world of capitalism, the world of legal states, but it is very difficult to reconcile Russian naturalness, spiritual breadth and faith in fate with the rigid and pragmatic rules of equal marriage.

Age-related spirituality

Referring to the usual age scale human life, we must note that, no matter what kind of marriage a person is in, he, one way or another, goes through all the stages of marriage stereotypes. Until the age of 30, romantic illusions disappear; at the age of 40, there is no hope left that the wife will forever take care of the children, darning, washing, ironing, etc. After 40 years, the era of showdown begins, when a man weakens and gives up positions one after another, and the woman, on the contrary, seems to spread her wings.

However, at 55 years old, with the onset of the age of the Dragon, a reverse transformation occurs, the will of a man is strengthened, the will of a woman is weakened, there is no longer talk of equality, competition, or struggle. There is, of course, no longer a return to the patriarchal order. But grown-up children, as a rule, end up in the patriarchal period, and already against the backdrop of their patriarchal marriage, raising growing grandchildren, spouses can establish relationships to which people who have lost faith in universal brotherhood, tired of struggle, weak in appearance, but exceptionally rich, gravitate internally. This is where we can talk about spiritual unity.

An amazing situation arises when the male sex, strong in mind but weak mentally, sharply weakens intellectually, but strengthens spiritually. A woman, on the contrary, sharply improves mentally, significantly maintaining the broad credit of her soul. It is during this period that the initially unusually different man and woman are most ready to unite into one being. And who knows, maybe this is precisely the great meaning of evolution.

Age-related mutual penetration is, of course, based on a thorough study of each other’s characteristics. The basis for this is the minutes, hours, days, years spent together. The more memories, the better. However, it is even more important that mutual interest in each other does not disappear, and interest, as we know, is based on some mystery, some mutual incomprehensibility. So, hoping for a long life together, do not rush to reveal all the secrets.

Spirituality Horoscope

From what has been said above, it clearly follows that spiritual marriage should be the most complex, the most difficult to establish. It is not surprising that the signs of the spouses are as far apart as possible. They have no equality in anything - neither in the sign of their way of life, nor in the sign of their thinking. That is, of the four possible options for marriage, the spiritual one turned out to be the one in which the road to each other is as far as possible, as confusing and unobvious as possible.

If spouses get into a spiritual marriage young, then they will have to go through many large and small crises and disagreements, and maybe even through divorce. However, if you succeed in crises, overcoming your own “I”, each time reaching a new level of communication, as if moving in a spiral and rising higher, then gradually the spiritual marriage will strengthen, deepen and ultimately become the best of all possible marriages. In such a marriage there will no longer be separate personalities or separate horoscopes; even souls will merge into one. That's how high the stakes are in a spiritual marriage.

Of course, all these transformations are not possible for all people, but only for a few, chosen, spiritually rich, as they say, spiritualized. We are not talking only about the elite, about bohemians; both the peasant and the worker can be spiritual. And yet, in order to understand the greatness of marriage, we turn to great examples, to those marriages that show us the way to the future.

So, Rostropovich - Vishnevskaya (Cat - Tiger), Alexandrov - Orlova (Cat - Tiger), Menshov - Alentova (Cat - Horse), Shchedrin - Plisetskaya (Monkey - Bull), Fellini - Mazina (Monkey - Rooster), Pyryev - Ladynina (Bull - Monkey), Aragon - Triolet (Rooster - Monkey), Roerich - Roerich (Dog - Cat), Gerasimov - Makarova (Horse - Goat), Panfilov - Churikova (Dog - Goat).

What awaits us in the future

So, skipping over the overly Western rules of equal marriage, Russia rushes into the expanses of that very spirituality that everyone and everyone is talking about so much. There is no point in fighting this, but you need to prepare.

One of the conditions must be education, preferably higher education. For a national stereotype to be born, the number of certified specialists must exceed the number of uneducated people. It is necessary that the thirst for creativity gradually supplants the concept of official duty, career, etc. Everything related to service is more likely to correspond to an equal marriage. It is necessary that people believe in a long life and a vigorous old age and not force events too much in their youth (including marriage, career, having children).

The birth and upbringing of children from the sphere of chance and gravity must move into the sphere of strict calculation and scientific consistency. Thus, simply motherhood, as an almost natural phenomenon, will gradually degenerate into creative, scientific motherhood, which, on the one hand, will strengthen the spiritual (creative) marriage, and on the other hand, will give rise to a generation of people in whom the spiritual sphere will prevail both over the physical, and above the purely intellectual.

A lot needs to happen in surrounding a person environment. The general tension emanating from the dominance of political themes contributes to the prevalence of equal marriage. A sharp decline in interest in politics, a decrease in the prestige of business and recognition of the value of creativity (scientific, artistic, simply creative attitude to any business) will immediately raise the importance of family, the meaning of marriage, and spiritual marriage.

It is extremely important that women's influence on adoption will increase in the future. global solutions, and in general, female authority will increase, for only female influence is capable of defeating the world's manhood, taming male violence and encouraging men to use their brains more and rattle their weapons less, to be able to create more and do less.

Love, which psychologists have until now considered a destructive factor for the strength of marriage (vector or romantic union), will become inevitably necessary in a spiritual marriage. However, in this love there will be much less passion, less struggle of the sexes, less blindness and anger.

Speaking about the legal aspects of marriage in the future, it is worth hoping that from the area of ​​property agreements and disagreements, marriage will move into the area of ​​creative disputes and issues of co-authorship.

Four spiritual marriages

1. The first, in which a woman's controlled will, her romantic love and a powerful source of controlled male love collide. We are talking about women born in the years of the Rooster, Bull and Snake, and men - Rats, Monkeys and Dragons. Minus vector marriages, that's eight couples. This union is facilitated by mutual, opposing energy power - two sources of love, two sources of will. In this case, there is a chance to achieve mutual penetration faster. However, there is also a danger here: too rapid a rapprochement may not happen so accurately. The powerful woman in this marriage comprehends love that is incomprehensible to her, the mystical husband loses his unnecessary madness and becomes more adequate to life.
2. The second version of spiritual marriage brings together a strong-willed husband and a mystical woman, independent of men. In this case we are talking about men from the troika Horse - Tiger - Dog and women from the troika Cat - Goat - Boar. Excluding vector marriages, these are seven options. The husband's enthusiasm in such a marriage is slightly higher than that of the wife, but this does not change the main thing: both spouses should experience deep curiosity about each other. It is mutual interest that is the basis of a spiritual marriage; this marriage cannot be built on boredom. It is not difficult to guess that the husband will become more mystical, and the wife, on the contrary, will move closer to the realities of life.
3. The third type of spiritual marriage is a fighting husband and a realistic wife. This is already a cold version of marriage. It includes men of the Ox, Rooster and Snake signs and women of the Rat, Monkey, Dragon signs (8 options). The mutual distance of the spouses makes marriage extremely difficult in the initial stage; attraction is too poorly supported energetically. But, as they say, every cloud has a silver lining - alienation helps spouses get closer together carefully, get used to each other at the most subtle level, without injury. Marriage is much more emotional than the two previous options; the signs come closer together on a different plane. The husband's logic becomes softer, losing primitivism, the wife's realism gradually rises from primitive commercialism and selfishness.
4. The fourth type of spiritual relationship brings together a realistic man and a combative, quick-thinking woman of the logical element. The husband is from the troika Cat - Goat - Boar, the wife is from the troika Horse - Dog - Tiger.

The husband's balance is mixed with the wife's activity, her eternal restlessness. However, outward composure does not prevent the husband from living in a wide range of emotions. A long spiritual marriage will give his feelings meaning. The wife gradually adds life experience, or what is called common sense, intuition, to her internal struggle of ideas. If these changes in thinking bring joy to the spouses, then the marriage can be considered successful.

Marriage Horse - Cat

Two open signs. Openness can prevent withdrawal from public affairs. Otherwise, the signs are quite different, which is not so bad for a spiritual marriage.

Marriage Horse - Goat

Marriage Horse - Boar

Alas, this marriage strives for spirituality, but does not achieve it, because the laws of the vector ring seize power.

Marriage Dog - Cat

A fairly common case. Spirituality is born against the background of general melancholy. May be, living together will help overcome sadness. On the other hand, melancholy gives rise to critical thinking, and two skeptics always have something to talk about.

Marriage Dog - Goat

Enough again weak energy, and along with it comes the fear of loneliness, which gives rise to a craving for spiritual marriage. Mutual orthodoxy is not an obstacle to spiritual quests, although it is not a very powerful reason.

Marriage Dog - Boar

Quite a rare case. Apparently, Pig is too confident in himself, too independent and cheerful for a spiritual marriage. Thus, for spiritual rapprochement, some special reasons are needed, which, however, life always provides in abundance.

Marriage Tiger - Cat

This option, on the contrary, is very common. Maybe the mutual soaringness (dreaming) helps, as well as the Cat’s closeness to the tiger’s cosmic optimism. Or maybe the whole point is that on the age scale these signs correspond to maximum spirituality.

Marriage Ox - Rat

General psychology is the basis, a springboard for a spiritual assault, otherwise there are no special contradictions. Energetically, the union is very beneficial. The Ox dumps excess energy, and the Rat always has an energy source nearby.

Marriage Ox - Dragon

Two orthodox signs. Both of them are used to playing by the rules. But are there any rules in spiritual rapprochement? In addition, energetically the signs are completely self-sufficient. Perhaps it is these reasons that make this variant of spiritual marriage quite rare.

Marriage Ox - Monkey

There is not much in common, but there are also no special contraindications. If you have a craving for spirituality, then why not try it? It is more difficult to tune into the spirituality of the Ox.

Marriage Snake - Rat

Two choleric people. But let's not forget that this outwardly active temperament is endowed with a minimum of energy. Life will tell whether energy poverty will help the signs merge into a single whole or drag the spouses into an energy abyss. In any case, you need to save energy from time to time.

Marriage Snake - Dragon

The prevalence of the union is explained by the maturity and richness of the signs, which, in turn, is explained by the location of the signs at the far end of the age scale. Otherwise, paradoxically, the signs have nothing in common.

Marriage Snake - Monkey

The closedness of the signs cannot close the boundless power in this marriage of the laws of the vector ring.